Childfree Reality

Meet women who get it. Make plans you’re excited about.

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Why we exist

Friendships often shift when people become parents.
You can feel on the outside.
Here, you build a circle that fits your life.
Warm, honest chats and gentle planning for the future if you want it.
Ask questions. Share plans. Celebrate the good stuff.

You’re one of many

In Britain, 28% of non-parents aged 18–40 say they definitely don’t want children. You’re not the odd one out, your choice is shared by a large and growing group. Come and find us on socials and in our community!

It’s the life stage shift, not you

We've all been here, friends have their first child, contact drops and they seem to spend their social time around other parents.
It's super common and documented, it isn’t a reflection on you.

A space that feels warm matters

Studies have found parents show strong in-group warmth specifically toward other parents.
Having your own space where you feel seen is important.

You're not selfish

Among UK 18–40 year olds who say they don’t want children, top reasons include cost (28%) and concern about the world (16%).
If you just don't want them, same here!

Hey, I'm Joanne...

A West Midlands girl now living in the North East searching for new friends and a social circle that fits my future. You can often find me in one of the many lush coffee shops in Newcastle, at a Toon game, music event, eating pizza or with my Fiancé Ben. We often walk our Sprocker Spaniel Daisy around Northumbria and along the Northumberland coast line. If you cant find me in any of those spots it’s likely I’m in Nashville or dreaming of my next visit as I listen to Drake White.

come say hi!

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Community Guidelines

What next...

Now you’re all signed up, you’ll receive an email with the link to the online community within 24 hours (check your spam or junk folder). Until then familiarise yourself with our guidelines below, this is to make the community a warm and welcoming place for you and all your new childfree girls.

Community Guidelines

1. One message at a time
Keep replies in a single message so chats stay easy to follow.2. Be kind
No bullying, rude comments or unkind behaviour. Anyone doing this will be removed.3. No cold DMs
Do not contact members privately unless they show interest in the chat. If you get an unwanted message, tell me (Joanne).4. Keep it light
Think twice before posting about divisive topics or heavy news. This space is for support, plans and good energy.5. Trigger warnings
If your post could be difficult for others, start with TW: and the topic.Questions?
Email [email protected] or DM on Instagram (links below).
Can’t wait for you to meet the girls!

Jo xxx

Community Guidelines

Jo xxx